The human mind is truly remarkable, full of endless potential and surprises. While physical strength has its limits, mental power knows no boundaries. It's true that some people may be physically weaker or shorter than others, but a strong, determined mind can help you overcome any physical limitations.
Many people fear things they’ve never experienced. They fear the unknown, constantly imagining the worst possible outcome. But the reality is often far different from what we fear.
I remember when I was younger, I was terrified of roller coasters. I used to worry I might fall off, and I had a fear of heights. However, thousands of people enjoy roller coasters every day without any issue. One day, I went to a local fair with my dad. When he found out I was afraid to ride the roller coaster, he said to me, “Look at those people riding the roller coaster. Now look down at the crowd watching them. Most people are afraid of the height and the movement, just like you. But if you let fear hold you back, you’ll always stay in the crowd, unnoticed. If you face your fear, even in small steps, like going to the ticket counter, you’ll stand out, and everyone will see you as someone who took the challenge. You’ll be up there, like a winner.”
Then he asked, “Do the 25 people on the coaster have anything more than you? Do they have extra arms or heads?” I replied, “No.” He then asked, “Has anyone ever died from a roller coaster ride?” I said, “No.” But I was still scared. I hesitated and said, “But what if I fall and break my arm, or even worse, what if I die?”
Then he said something I’ll never forget: “You’re standing under the roller coaster right now. What if it falls on you?” That simple statement shifted my perspective. I immediately went to the ticket counter, bought my ticket, and had my first ever roller coaster ride. And I survived, feeling proud of myself.
Fear can hold us back from so many great experiences. Yes, danger is real—it can strike at any time, in any place. But fear is something we create in our minds. It stops us from living fully, just as it almost stopped me from enjoying that ride.
I’m deeply grateful for my dad’s wisdom. He is a true warrior, always fighting for us, and continues to do so every day.
[Whenever I feel down or overwhelmed, I think of my dad and this particular moment. Our conversation that day was unique, but the advice he gave me was invaluable. I love you, Dad. Because of you, I no longer fear anything—well, except for exams, spicy food, snakes,... but you get the idea.]